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Friday, March 28, 2008

Question #668


Have you ever noticed how, when you are happy, others want to rain on your parade?

Any idea why that is?


6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Yes and its usually just plain jealousy. Depending on who it is, I will take one of several tacks: Ignore them, revel in my happiness even more or if I am feeling sympathetic, see if I can get them to join in and enjoy themselves.

Lanette said...

People that can't be happy for others are people who don't like themselves. And yes some of it is jealousy. But the root of it is poor self esteem.

Anonymous said...

Old cliché': Misery loves company and hates optimists.

I have spent the last 4 years working side by side with a wallowing, miserable, sad, angry, pitiful low self esteem person. She was petty and gloried in bad mouthing other people (opps, that is what I'm doing now but I'm making a point).....
Anyway, since I no longer work with her, I don't feel that cloud of grey over my head anymore.....

but I do think that if depression is contagious if exposed long enough.

Anonymous said...

me again: they say Laughter is contagious...

Anonymous said...

There are always those that want to rain on your parade...I usually ignore them.
I sure hope I've never done this!

Seeing others happy is wonderful!

I'm an incurable optimist !!!!
BREE

Anonymous said...

Don't know what I think of this one. I do know that I don't feel that way. I appreciate the good fortune of my friends. Cin may not agree with the mathmatics of this equasion but I believe that pain shared is halved, but joy shared is doubled.

Go figure.