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Thursday, August 16, 2007

Question #518

From "The Book of Questions" by Gregory Stock, PH.D


Q #50

If you could choose the manner of your death, what would it be?

Bonus Q's: Why is it so tempting to have death catch us in our sleep? How do your feelings about death influence the way you lead your life?

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

To die of old age without any disease or harmful physical or mental ailment befailing me. To be with my wife and family and friends when I go.

I think it is tempting to have death catch us in our sleep because we view it as a quiet way to go, with less impact to our loved ones.

The only way that my feelings about death influence the way I live my life is that I have always feared dying violently, so I have always been a cautious, vigilent person.

Rant Master said...

I want to fall over dead just after saying goodbye to all my loved one who remain among the living. Dieing in your sleep is a peaceful way to go, as you are dreaming one second and gone to your final reward the next.

I do not worry about my death - it is inevitable, so why worry?

La said...

I would want to be awake and aware of death but I don't want pain, or suffering. I am way more afraid of pain than I am of death.
I agree that people do have the notion that to die while sleep would be ideal. I think it has more to do with fear of pain or fear of the transition..or maybe the fear of a conscious transition.

Anonymous said...

I want to go quickly. Very Quickly. Old age, but not so old that I have lost all of my physical abilities. I think the reason people want to go in their sleep is the fear of death and the acknowledgment that it is a part of life. Q: Why do we fear death? I'm much more afraid of living to be honest!

Reminds me of the old joke: "I want to die like my grandfather did, in his sleep. Not screaming like the passengers in his car."

Anonymous said...

If I could choose it would be peacefully in my sleep---cause old age. Celebrate my life don't mourn a life well lived and loved.

I would hope never to be a burden to my husband and family.

No, I don't worry about my death, we've got everything in order, our Family Trust and Wills.
bree

Totsie Tales said...

It's not my choice. I'll go when I've reached fullness in this life. I can think of thousands of scenarios that are attractive, but I want the event to happen when I least expect it. In my sleep? I think the attraction is that we don't feel the fear that is natural.